Thank you all for contributing. good points Mike and Rich,
It seems that humans relationship is based on fear, instead of trust. We trust our family and friends, less trust our neighbors, and feel others as probable enemies... others do the same. It is naive to consider everyone as friends because we fear each other and hurt each other then... It starts from fear and ends in fear. What if it could start from kindness and end in kindness If it is possible to reframe a society based on trust? make all the laws and regulations based on trust? help each other to make trust? these are things wandering in my mind...