First of all, which version of Vray SU are you using? This information helps us figure out whats going on. Secondly, sadly having 32GB of ram will do nothing for Sketchup (or Vray for Sketchup for that matter) as Sketchup is only a 32bit program which can use a maximum of ~3Gb of RAM. You should first try purging out all unused components, materials, etc to try to reduce the size of the model. Then if you still can't render normally, try rendering to a file (.exr) and then fix up the image in something like Photoshop or Gimp.
Rob