Hi folks.
With scaling, everything in the component will be scaled. If the change in frame size bother you, you can use the Move Tool.
For example, if you want to increase the heigth and the width of a window but keep the framing the same size as the original, go in component edit mode, select the top frame and move it up. After that, select the right frame and move it right. The other lines attached to the selection, will stretch automatically. Of course, you may select the bottom frame and move it down or the left frame and move it left.
If the component is made of subcomponents, you may have to dig deeper into these to edit them one by one.
Just ideas.