OK I got it working , I kinda suspected it was a windows issue and when I noticed several other programs having the same issue that confirmed it... Quicktime and several other programs had no file open/save dialog. I am not sure what fixed it as I tried several things before testing but it was one of the following. I ran SFC /scannow which said there were some corrupt files and not all could be repaired, I also went to DEFAULT PROGRAMS in the control panel and reset file associations. It may have been setting windows search explorer to all by doing the following.
start/default programs/set your default programs/scroll down to Windows Search Explorer and select it/then select Choose defaults for this program/click the ALL checkbox and SAVE.
Not sure which of those did the trick but after searching allot I saw that other people had the same problem but not much luck in finding out why so hopefully that will help someone in the future. Although I wish I hadnt broken my rule about trying one fix at a time so that I could be sure of which one got it working.