Whatever happened to common sense ...
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I guess it all comes down to how one defines the term 'sexual harrassment'.
The puberty thing Stinkie described (who's not familiar with discovery and exploring?) is consentual (is this the correct English word ?) and in my little world unharmful.I think we will all agree that when it is not consentual there is a problem.
The way to react to that and to which extent is a cultural thing.
Some cultures would take the matter out in the open (legal action etc...), and some would try to fix things more discretely by not crying Wolf over nothing.There is no culture better than another, but I am glad to be part of a culture that takes action based on 'common sense' in the less damaging way possible for all parties .
I must admit though that even Belgium is loosing some of that common sense lately. -
@kwistenbiebel said:
I think we will all agree that when it is not consentual there is a problem.
I agree.
@kwistenbiebel said:
There is no culture better than another, but I am glad to be part of a culture that takes action based on 'common sense' in the less damaging way possible for all parties .
(...) Damn, what happened to the 'loose' seventies and eighties athmosphere
Oi, don't forget the nineties! Consensus was met many times during that decade!
Seriously, though, the world seems to have become a somewhat thougher place. People seem to be less ... forgiving, these days.@kwistenbiebel said:
I must admit though that even Belgium is loosing some of that common sense lately.
Are you referring to the "Fenomenale Feminatheek" thing?
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Kwist, i find it hard to believe that a kid of 6 will be deliberately harassing someone in a sexual manner, I mean they're 6 for god's sake!
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@remus said:
Kwist, i find it hard to believe that a kid of 6 will be deliberately harassing someone in a sexual manner, I mean they're 6 for god's sake!
I share your opinion. Kids are kids.
(Unless we're talking the rare occasion of a mentally ill kid trying to copy grown up behaviour in a violent way, but we have good hospitals for those(I hope)as they need help) -
@unknownuser said:
@kwistenbiebel said:
I must admit though that even Belgium is loosing some of that common sense lately.
Are you referring to the "Fenomenale Feminatheek" thing?
Yes, among other things.
(note: 'The fenomenal Feminateek' is a vintage erotic image collection of a famous Belgian surrealistic writer (Louis Paul Boon). The display of these images was forbidden by local community.)One of the major things that makes me decide we're losing some common sense is the way that politicians make new laws that already were covered by the constitutional rights.
For instance, Belgium voted a law against 'racist talk' (prison sentences etc..) while the constitution already described 'freedom of speech' to the extent people aren't damaged (in Dutch called 'smaad'.)
It's a case of politics trying to gain more control over people and install a system based on fear to keep them calm and let them walk the straight line. -
Fear? Come on, hombre! You're not telling me you think anyone's afraid of our government, are you!?
As for the "anti racism law", that's just an update of the laws we already had. Useful in some cases, too. We shouldn't go overboard with this kind of thing, though. Take the "anti revisionism law" (it's illegal in Belgium to deny the existence of death camps during WW2). An abomination, I feel. I deplore revisionists, but they should be able to speak their minds. Of course, I won't protest if they get punched in the stomach while doing so.
The Feminatheek thing was ... ridiculous. The fifties are back! Be sure to go to church next sunday, Kwisten! Bigotry ... yuck.
(Oh: Boon was not a surrealist.)
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I saw that reply before you removed it, Kwisten. Van Ostaijen ...
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Exactly...I got those two mixed up for a minute.
Louis Paul Boon was the guy of 'Kapellekesbaan' right? (romantic, rural writer)(sorry, way off-topic)
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Yeah. Not "rural", but close enough. We deviated a tad, indeed.
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Anyway,
'Fear' maybe was too big of a word to describe what I meant.
You can't ignore though that less is allowed. More rules, more control.
What was once regulated by common sense and old traditions ( old Catholic principles are wearing of in this part of Europe) now seems to be overtaken by law making.
Politics to control peoples conscience.
That's slowly heading back to the eigtheen hundreds in my opinion.... -
Yes, I agree with Alan about some of the very low life Solicitors /
Lawyers that are willing to stoop to any depths in order to make a
living. The TV and Yellow Pages advertising bunch are also here in
this country and the UK.One of the reasons for their success is because they are allowed to
work on a 'One Foal No Fee' basis. I can understand that an injured
party may not always have the funds to take a case and the No Foal
No Fee system is acceptable here.But the onus should be on the solicitor / lawyer to use good judgement
before taking on such a case. This has not been the situation over
the past number of years in this country. Until recently the defending
party had to pay their own costs after successfully defending a case
brought against them as its not possible to get money out of a plaintiff
with no assets!Last year there were moves to change the law here in Ireland and make
the plaintiffs solicitor liable for the defendants costs should the
case be proven to be fraudulent. I think something along these lines has
been brought in but not sure exactly what. However we are seeing far
fewer fraudulent claims these days ! -
I've gone off topic sort of in my last post.
I can remember back when I was a little lad going to school.
If we stepped out of line we got 'six of the best' across the
bum with a leather or cain. I really believe it did no long
lasting harm and put us on the straight and narrow. It was
over and done with in a few minutes and life moved on. The
lesson was remember as it was associated with some PAIN!These days corporal punishment is a big No No. I think this
is mistake. I can understand this attitude in Europe as we
have abolished capital punishment years ago but in much of
the USA it still stands. I believe Texas still has the death
sentence for certain crimes but teachers are not allowed to
chastise students with the cain. This simply does not make
sense to me.I would go as far to say its natural for a parent (teachers
undertake the parents role in school) to physically chastise
its offspring. Just look at a bitch feeding her litter. If one
of the pups is misbehaving he gets a sharp rebuff that puts
some manners into him. It works and is natural! Why should
humans be any different?
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