The Dangers of Sunbathing Topless

Ray Brown

I think I saw that woman on a cruise I took a year or so ago...

sorgesu

Ray, you were on that cruise with me. What, or more properly, WHO, exactly are you alluding to?

( Grumble, grumble: Anal need to correct: TO WHOM, exactly are you alluding.

Ray Brown

Don't get your knickers all in a knot, Susan. I most certainly wasn't talking about YOU!It was just a joke.

However, this does illustrate why Frederick's comment about why men shouldn't weigh in on these matters is so pertinent.

I beleive that, in general, any joke that's at the expense of one group or another are land mines for others who are not members of that group to comment on. (...on which for others to comment...?) As a black man, I can tell you that it's certainly true of jokes black people tell about themselves. In my own experience, it's also particularly true of jokes that women tell about themselves or about men. But then, I've never been particularly wise about knowing when to keep my mouth shut...